By: Dave

Dave — Thu, 07 Apr 2011 18:47:38 +0000

My wife and I have her narcisstic jerk ex-husband doing the same things during his visitation times with her kids and they come back bratty, unruly, disrespectful, uncooperative from each visitation. There’s no rules in his household, no jobs for the kids, no homework…Disneyland Dad to the max. He’s also 100 thousand in debt from unpaid child support…and the California courts won’t do anything about it because he’s self-employed, and because right-wing dad’s rights groups have infiltrated the legal system here and have flourished due to the no-fault divorce status and nonexistent enforcement from the Bar Assn. The only way to turn any of this around is to get initiatives, legislation, and laws passed that call parent’s behavior into question, both genders, and holds them to a standard that the court will uphold for the benefit of the children…but it can’t happen while the dad’s rights groups (and their white supremist brethren) harass anyone who tries, and the lazy legal system sleeps its way through another day on the bench.

By: Carol

Carol — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:53:19 +0000

I am a mother, grandmother and great-grandmother- and I am so sick of the women I’ve seen manipulating their innoscent children in a divorce-custody battle. i have expereinced it with two of my sons divorces. The latter being the worse I’ve ever seen in my life. My son fought for custody for over 7 years and just now got his children fromt he mother. She pulled every rick in the book-mostly illegal- she didn’t care-whatever worked. She has damaged my grandchildren most likely for the rest of their lives. Now that he has custody she calls every day fromt he day he got them-several times daily and uses her brainwashing tactics still by phone. Everything mentioned on this site plus things that aren’t she has done and is doing. She’s admitted to drug use on the stand, admitted to mail tampering on the stand, taken federal funds from my son after the divorce for a year and a half- manipulated witnesses and chiildren to testify on her behalf and spy. She calls my sons home and makes violent threats to him if she can’t talk to them whenver and as many times as she wants daily so she can disrupt everyone else’s lives. She is destorying the children and has no reason to do the things she does except for her own anger and hatred. She had an affair during their marraige and bore another amans child during my son’s marraige. She is the bad parent- how does one help the children to overcome this sort of manipoulation from their mother??!!

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