http://www.brainwashingchildren.com/2009/05/the-post-visitation-shakedown/ How to combat mental child abuse Sat, 10 Jul 2010 17:45:26 -0400 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.brainwashingchildren.com/2009/05/the-post-visitation-shakedown/comment-page-1/#comment-104 Melanie Sun, 27 Sep 2009 06:43:18 +0000 http://www.brainwashingchildren.com/?p=21#comment-104 Thank you so much for this article. I am deep in the throes of this right now. My ex is an attorney in a small town. He and his new wife, who demands my daughter call her mom, uses scripture, etc. against me to defame me, take phrases of what I've done or said (we used to be friends before they married) and turns them on me--are on a "whisper campaign" right now as my daughter has started a new school and the stepmom feels threatened. It seems they are obsessed. The problem is he is now a "minister" and they portray me in such a light that it is impossible to combat it without hurting my daughter. I have never fought him for custody (we have joint but he bullies me enough that he gets what he wants) though I would win. It would kill my daughter though. So, it's this new interrogation and retribution if she does not side with them that has me worried. Now they are accusing me of not having enough food for her and let me assure she that is ludicrous. I have recently lost weight and for whatever reason, the stepmother trapped my daughter into saying that she (daughter) is not eating and that my problems with weight have directly affected her. This is absolutely untrue. I don't know what to do. It is difficult to fight both the higher powers of a Messiah complex and the law. Thank you for this outlet. It is a lonely life Thank you so much for this article. I am deep in the throes of this right now. My ex is an attorney in a small town. He and his new wife, who demands my daughter call her mom, uses scripture, etc. against me to defame me, take phrases of what I’ve done or said (we used to be friends before they married) and turns them on me–are on a “whisper campaign” right now as my daughter has started a new school and the stepmom feels threatened. It seems they are obsessed. The problem is he is now a “minister” and they portray me in such a light that it is impossible to combat it without hurting my daughter. I have never fought him for custody (we have joint but he bullies me enough that he gets what he wants) though I would win. It would kill my daughter though. So, it’s this new interrogation and retribution if she does not side with them that has me worried. Now they are accusing me of not having enough food for her and let me assure she that is ludicrous. I have recently lost weight and for whatever reason, the stepmother trapped my daughter into saying that she (daughter) is not eating and that my problems with weight have directly affected her. This is absolutely untrue. I don’t know what to do. It is difficult to fight both the higher powers of a Messiah complex and the law. Thank you for this outlet. It is a lonely life

]]> http://www.brainwashingchildren.com/2009/05/the-post-visitation-shakedown/comment-page-1/#comment-98 Lori Sun, 06 Sep 2009 08:30:05 +0000 http://www.brainwashingchildren.com/?p=21#comment-98 My kids dread and even fear the shakedown..... I told them to do whatever they have too - to get buy - and that I will handle their father. I told them I don't want them to lie and that they have to respect what their dad asks of them. That it's not anything that they have done that he is just angery. * * After 7 years of being divorced - he is still angery - like its the first 6 months* * *I am hoping someday soon he will move past this point My kids dread and even fear the shakedown….. I told them to do whatever they have too – to get buy – and that I will handle their father. I told them I don’t want them to lie and that they have to respect what their dad asks of them. That it’s not anything that they have done that he is just angery.
* * After 7 years of being divorced – he is still angery – like its the first 6 months* * *I am hoping someday soon he will move past this point

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