Comments on: Dr. Phil’s show on Brainwashing of Children

By: deloras

deloras — Thu, 28 Jul 2011 14:27:13 +0000

This is all too sad. My daughter is going through similar issues. Her ex lives with his mom and has no job….He has joint custody of two of her children and she has a three year old boy from the same father that she has custody.. He tells my daughter that he was thinking about giving the kids back to her but he wouldn’t have a place to live cuz his parents would kick him out. Unreal!!!! He is using these kids as a pawn against my daughter due to the fact they had issues through the divorce and my daughter was diagnosed with bipolar years ago. She is being reevaluated and is dealing with alot since the ex hangs that over her head and she has been perfectly fine with counseling and meds.. The kids are out of control when she gets them for parenting time and when she tries to correct them they want to go back to dad’s cuz he lets them do whatever they want and buys them prizes, so they say. Once they are at dads they want to go back to moms.

By: Sam smith

Sam smith — Fri, 25 Feb 2011 20:10:23 +0000

It is not nice to post all these comments to the public if these are all private. Please remove immeadiately for privacy settings for peoples rights! Thank you
It was suppose to be for Dr. Phil only not for the whole world.
What is going on???? Who agrees?

By: joe

joe — Wed, 26 Jan 2011 16:53:24 +0000

susan, i disagree that father advocates have taken over, i do not know of any web sites to help men brainwash their kids, dosnt mean there isnt any. What you describe happens more often to fathers then mothers. It is a sick and twisted person to do this to their child and both moms and dads are guitly of this abuse.

My daughters mother has done this as well. My daughter is 16 now so the courts will not help me or her. She no longer wants to see me because of the lies. It started 4 years ago with false claims of child abuse. I won the court case but lost my daughter (court order btw so your right, the courts are of no use). I feel that this is changing, but ever so slowly and it wont help me, but maybe a generation from now it will help. These peopel like my ex wife and your former son in law will be accused of what they are doing, it is child abuse. It breaks my heart to see what has happened to my daughter and i hope some day she becomes away of it, but i have to move on.

By: susan

susan — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 18:31:43 +0000

The father advocates have taken over.
Men are so angry at being rejected they can now
go to many web sights that show them through books and
video exactly how to brainwash the kid.s
My daughter has a 2 yr old and within a year he was able to get the child to quit kissing her mom , will not talk to her on the phone anyjmore, but runs away and hides.
when he picks her up her mom leans over to ,iss her and say I love you and the daughter turns to her dad, wipes her moms kiss off and say “I love you daddy”.
The list goes on and on. The poor child is so confusted and her mom is devastated.
Lawyers and judges dont care.

By: admin

admin — Wed, 22 Dec 2010 02:39:03 +0000

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By: Marion

Marion — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 22:56:08 +0000

My daughters father and stepmother are brainwashing my 8 year old daughter, she has a degree in psychology and plays mind games with me. Almost every time I call when she is visiting her dad for the summer she is busy and can’t talk even when it’s my time to call. They say they will have her call me back and she never does. She’s always in the bathtub or outside. I have full custody but when she is out there with him she doesn’t want to talk to me and makes comments to me like “mom why don’t you leave me alone and let me enjoy my time here” that is not how my daughter speaks to me. He stopped paying child support and one time when I did get ahold of her I asked to speak to her dad about something she said “mom if it’s about child support he’s busy”. Every summer this happens I have to readjust her every year when she gets back. It’s really wearing. She is a good kid but her dad does what Dr phil says, using her as a pawn, treating her like an adult ect. He doesn’t talk to me but through her. She shouldn’t be involved. It’s really sad and infuriates me but I don’t let them know that. I allowed her to stay an extra 2 weeks this year and am regretting that decision. Who knows what they are saying about me and my family right now. Like I said, before thankgod I have sole custody.

By: Shawntae Retledge

Shawntae Retledge — Fri, 25 Jun 2010 01:56:44 +0000

My child’s father is brain washing my five year old daughter, because he is made that I moved on with somebody else, he has make false alagations against me, he has made inappropriate sexual gestures to my daughter, and no law will do anything about it, and I need help, and it is killing me, and hurting my daughter.

By: Janice

Janice — Sat, 29 May 2010 23:21:45 +0000

This is the utmost betrayal on a human spirit. I thought i was alone and found this website. I have no family but really close friends.

My son has been mentally abused by his father for 17 years. I sat back hoping something would change or that this mans heart would see his child in pain.

My son has now turned to drugs and even that will not make his father stop! now he just says I am the one who made our son do it. and ignores the serious signs that my son is going down quickly. The vicious lies he has bestowed on anyone who will listen, now has made my atempts for help unanswered. I can’t sleep at night and all I know is I feel I raised my son to be a good man and hope that will prevail.

We have laws for consumers that are wronged by companies yet emotional and mental abuse on children is far neglected.

If i could have one wish, it would be my son able to be loved by both his parents.

By: tonya

tonya — Sat, 22 May 2010 01:05:16 +0000

I have been with my other half now going onto 7 years. I have 2 kids one from him and they other from my ex. He has 3 kids 1 is his and 2 is not. He said that he loves all the kids the same but I think other wise. I think what is best is if only he spoke and did thinks with his daughter to regain what ever was lost in that time. I on the other side of the fence don’t want to deal with the other kids. I know it might seem a little cold hearted of me. To me its to much stress and the last time that they spoke she tride to put him in jail. And everytime he wanted to see the kids she would say no, no, no, and know she say yes, there was other times when he started to go over to see the kids it wound up one time a week, two times a week, I need a ride to work more than once. you can take the kids and here is their laundry basket, and I need money we are going to get kicket out. Does anyone out there feel what Im trying to say. And I could make the list longer. Its from all these thing that has happend that I don’t want to deal with his ex life at all and only his daughter I would rather have me kids play together. If any one can give some edvice on how to better handle the situation please give me a call. My number is (702) 764-0078 and thank you for reading my distess.

By: Joyce

Joyce — Mon, 03 May 2010 19:46:51 +0000

@Carol, May 2, 2010. I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. I belief my 15 year old grandchild is being brainwashed. The mother has told me that she can’t visit me until she is 18. I could publically bring the mother down but won’t because I don’t want to cause any emotional abuse to my grandchild. We (my side of the family including my son) have only tried to be helpful towards the mother and two other “fatherless” children. This alienation has been going on for 5 years now. I don’t know how to break through the entire mess.