Comments on: Other ways of describing the Brainwashing of Children

By: Amy

Amy — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 02:37:37 +0000

You know the saddest part about all of this…is that we sit here blaming him or her or Daddy, or Mommy…lawyers make a good living off of the destruction of families. There are good people/parents and there are bad. But what makes the system operate the way it does is our corrupted legal system which knows that whether your’re male or female….there’s a good chance you’ll fight to see you kids. So what did lawyers/politicians create? They created a system which gives women unfail advantage in court over men. Why? Well I believe (and if you look how courts proceed it seems clear to me) that it’s set up this way to promote time in court which for an attorney/politician…that’s good money. It’s all a game that politicians, attorneys, judges have been playing with families for years and people just accept it now. Look at the system they created. First, lets agree that divorce is usually very difficult on the kids unless of course you need to remove the child from that environment. But in reality, the percentage of that are very low. Typically it’s the mother/father who need to work on things..but the kids end up suffering, and parents end up paying for it in legal fees but it’s never a satisfactory solution.

So what have they set up…well, we have:
No fault divorce: Now you don’t even need a reason to get a divorce…there’s easy money for some unethical attorney. Destroy a family that probably could have been saved and make good money doing it.

States get Federal money for every person who enteres the Single Custodial Parent role: Lots of people don’t know this…but it all makes sense. Get as many people into the divorce machine as you can and crank up those Single Custodial Parent” numbers so that the state gets more federal money. That’s a win/win situation for the state and attorneys. The state gets the federal money but you as a father for instance don’t see that federal money….no no…you have to pay child support. So you are paying for your kids even thuogh you only see them a fraction of the time, while the state collects a check from uncle sam. Of course attorneys make out because they represent the fool who thinks he/she will get any justice in this legal system run by self serving politicians, lawyers, judges.

Women put at an unfair advantage over men: This just sets men up so that if they want any justice..they’re going to have to pay $10,000 plus for it! Again, nice job if you’re an attorney.

So how can it be fixed quickly? FIrst, divorce should never be promoted when young kids are involved. The court should do whatever it can to do what’s right for the kids. So first, judges need to start asking question when the papers are filed for divorce. If the couple has no children…easier case. If they have children…get to the root of the problem in the marriage. Who filed and why?

Pass laws that put the parents on equal terms. When it comes to custody…it should be 50/50 by default and the parties can change that if they agree to.

Get rid of alimony…this should have gone above…if a person files for divorce…they should have NO RIGHT to file for alimony unless there is a good reason. Instead, alimony is always there so again, you give someone a gun (out legal system), you give them a bullet (alimoney), and attornyes hope that with that power, someone will go after alimony or pull that trigger…why? Because they can.

Oh lets not forget restraining orders. It’s way to easy to get a restraining order. Talk about Parental alienation. Again there is only ONE reason why you pass, or set up laws like this, to increase court time and money made in court.

Some laws like the 50/50 custody could be easily put in place but by doing that…people won’t have anything to go to court to fight over and pay attorneys fees.

You get what you subsidize….if you want people to go to court, then you simply give unfair advantage to a different group. You “subsidize” them so that in order to fight them in court, you have to pay. They do too…but the point is, they have an unfair advantage and were given things that they should not have been given without some level of investigation….and again, there is no investigation unless you go to trial….which again, costs thousands. It’s quite I nice little system they’ve created. Totally unfair and people have come to accept it….that is, unless they get sucked into it themselves.

By: Steve

Steve — Fri, 28 May 2010 18:00:04 +0000

I live this everyday………..I am afraid of my son’s father, I’m in a relationship with him and truly afraid to leave and cut ties completely for my son’s sake. Help!!! Please, any advice I would greatly appreciate, I know it is going to be a long, drawn out nasty court battle once again, but I just need to prove that this emotional abuse is going on!!

By: Kayla Ramos

Kayla Ramos — Wed, 19 May 2010 03:09:46 +0000

I think my ex is hurting my 3 yr old baby girl and saying that her step father made him do it. She comes back with bruises and has nightmares everynight. She wont have anything to do with my husband, and she accuses him of terrible things that he didn’t do. She came home from his house saying that “Poppy hit her and kicked her and punched her and that her Daddy was going to break Poppy.” Poppy is her step father. We dont even spank the kids. He has never hurt her in any way. She throws tempertantrums all the time saying Poppy tell me No! But that is all he did to her. He is afraid to have anything to do with her. When he tries to hold her or hug her, she busts out screaming she wants her mommy and tries to get away from him as quickly as possible. You could see the hurt on his face. He has known her since she was 6 months old, but they didnt see each other for a couple of years after that, but they talked on the phone the whole time. We have called the police and DSS and they wont help us. What do you do when someone is hurting your child and the only people who could help choose not to? I feel helpless and useless. My hands are tied. I cant keep her here with me because my ex and I are court ordered to split the week with her. If I break it, I lose custody and wont be able to do anything to help her. What in the hell do I do?

By: kindness

kindness — Sat, 01 May 2010 09:14:34 +0000

I live in canton ohio. I have 2 kids in foster care. my case worker want my 2 kids to be put for adoption. Im not giving up on mu 2 kids. we need to all come together. we have to stop cps & family court. cps is all about lies & money. we need a good strong fighting organization in all states. we have to keep fighting for all of our kids & rights. We need a organization here in ohio. I would like for anyone in ohio to contact me. my e-mail is kindnessohio33@yahoo.com or u can contact me on fb. It is time we wake up ohio. I need a lot of help & support. A lot of parents dont have money for a good attorney. we can all come together to help bring our kids home

By: cindy crone

cindy crone — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 06:32:31 +0000

MY SON HAS BEEN ABUSED AND USED BY A WOMAN WHO HAS A SON, THAT THE PARENTS OF HERS HAVE KEPT THE MAN IN THE DARK FOR YEARS . THEN MY SON MARRIES HER, ANDLOVED HIM AS HIS OWN. FOR 4 YEARS. THEN HAD 2 CHILDREN WITH HER OF HIS OWN. WORKED HIS ASS OFF DROVE A CAR WITH NO HEAT, AND HER PARENTS WOULD NOT EVER LEAVE THEM ALONE SHE RAN TO THEM ALL THE TIME. I AM THE MOTHER OF MY SON. SHE WENT TO JAIL ON DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FOR 3 DAYS. HER MOTHER FOUGHT HIM SCRATCHED HIM WITH HIS DAUGHTER IN HIS ARMS. NOW SHE HAS TAKEN MY SON TO COURT 2 TIMES IN THE LAST YEAR. FOR MORE MONEY, AND NOW BACK TO COURT AGAIN ON A RESTRANING ORDER. WHY CAUSE HE CALLED AND ASKED HER TO PLEASE BRING CLOTHES THAT FIT THE KIDS. AND SHE FILED A DOMESTIC CHARGE THAT HE THREATENED HER. THOSE PARENTS OF HERS, ALSO TOOK MY GRANDCHILDREN AND HIDED THEM EVEN FROM THE LAW. FOR ALMOST 24 HOURS. UNTIL I SAID CALL THE FBI IN. THEN THE CHILDREN APPEARED. I HARDLY SEE MY BABIES. AND GUESS WHAT. I AM GOING TO FILE ALOT OF CHARGES. RIGHT BACK IN THEIR FACE. I MAY GO TO JAIL. BUT I BET I MAKE A SCENE IN THE COURT HOUSE ON JAN 26 2010 IN CANTON OHIO. MY SON LOVES HIS KIDS. AND ONE EXCELLENT FATHER. THAT THEY HAD THREATENED HIS LIFE. SHE GOES TO JAIL BUT MY SON PAYS THE PRICE. THIS IS NOT JUSTICE. SHE HAS ONE CHILD WITH NO FATHER. I GUESS SHE WANTS 2 MORE. HER MOM AND DAD BRAIN WASH THESE BABIES. AND I WILL TRY IN MY HEART SOUL AND LIFE. TO STOP IT. ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREATFUL. GOD BLESS THE LITTLE ANGELS THAT GOD GAVE US.

By: Jess

Jess — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 18:52:32 +0000

Their are also sick mothers, let me tell you it goes both ways.

My boyfriend’s ex doesn’t let him see the kids, or speak to them for that matter for weeks at a time. Unfortunately, they are not legally separated or divorced. My boyfriend doesn’t want to hurt the kids, so he refuses to stick up for his rights.

By the time we do get to spend time with his 2 children, they are so confused about things like their last name, to his son thinking he can be a girl. He is 3, and very vulnerable. How can you tell a child it is ok to be a girl.

It’s sad.

By: Chuck

Chuck — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 04:32:43 +0000

You know the saddest part about all of this…is that we site here blaming him or her or Daddy, or Mommy…lawyers make a good living off of the destruction of families. There are good people/parents and there are bad. But what makes the system operate the way it does is our corrupted legal system which knows that whether your’re male or female….there’s a good chance you’ll fight to see you kids. So what did lawyers/politicians create? They created a system which gives women unfail advantage in court over men. Why? Well I believe (and if you look how courts proceed it seems clear to me) that it’s set up this way to promote time in court which for an attorney/politician…that’s good money. It’s all a game that politicians, attorneys, judges have been playing with families for years and people just accept it now. Look at the system they created. First, lets agree that divorce is usually very difficult on the kids unless of course you need to remove the child from that environment. But in reality, the percentage of that are very low. Typically it’s the mother/father who need to work on things..but the kids end up suffering, and parents end up paying for it in legal fees but it’s never a satisfactory solution.

Women put at an unfair advantage over men: This just sets men up so that if they want any justice..they’re going to have to pay $10,000 plus for it! Again, nice job if you’re an attorney.

Pass laws that put the parents on equal terms. When it comes to custody…it should be 50/50 by default and the parties can change that if they agree to.

Some laws like the 50/50 custody could be easily put in place but by doing that…people won’t have anything to go to court to fight over and pay attorneys fees.

By: Sharon Cole

Sharon Cole — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 22:49:34 +0000

There are some sick Dads out there (and mothers I am sure) My ex-husband stuck a knife in my daughters virgina when she was 3. It was witnessed by her older siblings, 4 year old sister and 7 year old brother. (I was at a Stubbenville retreat with my older daugther) He as had custody for the last 8 years, I have not seen my girls in over two years. When mommy and daddy stand to lose their only son, (only male born in family line) and a business to boot, with the exposure of what their son did to their granddaughter……The lies and deframation of my character are unbelieveable! Abby is now 13 and hopefully more then willing to tell the truth. Her number is (deleted by ed.)!! Grandparents and Dad have paid hundreds of thousands of $$ to to keep all of this quite. In conclusion, my friend, and a therapist (the same therapist my daughter openly disclosed what her dad did to her) for over 25 years, comments, when yours girls make their way back home to mom (thats me) yours girls will have to go through years of therapy just to undo the mental brainwashing!!! May there be enough calls and attempts to contact my Abby that it will make enough attention that someone will do the honest and lawfull thing of getting her and her sister out of there and to a safe place!!!! God Bless all who make an attempt. Let my Abby know that mom Loves her all the way to Jesus in Heaven and Back!!!

By: Theresa

Theresa — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 10:59:49 +0000

By: satellite p

satellite p — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 20:29:34 +0000

It’s cathartic just to be able to tell cyberspace about the psychological abuse being heaped on a 5 yr old by his ‘daddy’ – he’s become father of the year since he moved out!!! Where was he for the preceding years? Now he’s brainwashing the child and makes him ‘promise’ to do horrible things and not do others – when with mama. You can see this little cutie pie struggling with everything mommy says to see if it’s something ‘daddy’ doesn’t want him to do. How long can the little one keep that up? He deprives him of sleep and nutritious food (thinks that’s spiteful to mom) and when he comes home the child’s beyond rational thought for two days. And just when he’s enjoying being at home again he gets scooped off with superdaddy once more. Hoping beyond hope for a cure – it’s beyond painful to watch and say nothing.