Brainwashing Children

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   Anonymous
   

   25. Jun, 2009

   Keep posting in here!! You may not have a lot of responses, but I just found this site and this is a treasure trove of information I can give my loved ones as they fight for custody of their daughter/stepdaughter…

   -Anonymous (for ID protection purposes)
2. 

   Chelsea
   

   03. Dec, 2010

   how do you get it to stop. My ex husband abused me for years and my children saw it. i finally get the courage to leav and move on with my life but he still tries to control me. the girls whole demeaner is changing with me. they talk to me the same way there dad did when we were together. they yell at me call me names i dont know where this aggression comes from. i dont limit his phone calls but he tells them tha i dont let them talk to him enough. i change weekends with him to try to accomidate him to get to some common ground but the favour is never returned. he delibaritly goes out of his way to make my life and the girls life with me missarable. Both of my grandparents died on seperate occasions but he would not trade me weekends so that the girls could come to the funerals. My parents live 24 hours away from me and they came down for both funerals and the girls were not allowed to see them since it was his weekend access i need to know how to get things changed before its to late
3. 

   Judy
   

   19. Jun, 2011

   i dont know where to begin, but when i got divorced, it was on good terms even though my ex never loved me (long story) but anyways when my ex remarried this witch . both of them would brainwash my kids against me when they saw him on weekends saying i was using his money for my own use, they should live on their own etc etc and that he would pay for everything made it sound so wonderful for my kids any kid would of jumped at the chance to have their own apartment and have their daddy pay for everything… but it was for his own reasoning, he never wanted to pay for child support. he took me to court every other month to lower the payment. and if it didnt go his way we would be back there month after month until he was finally desperate enough to say he was layed off at work, but that didnt sit too well with the judge who made him look for jobs so my kids could have insurance. he went for a whole year tormenting me in court. but they would always see that i really wasnt doing anything, because i filled out the paperwork and everything was done by that the calculations. then when kids went to college he was supposed to contribute (but never did) so i am still to this day paying for my kids college without any help with him and took him to court for it but they said i had to give him the paperwork which i sent to him back in january and to this day he had not responded. This guy never gives up , he stopped speaking to my kids after last court appearance back in september and missed christmas my kids birthdays which was horrifying and even dropped off stuff my kids had left up at his house on my front porch for my younger boy. So what i dont understand that recently he’s back in the picture and my nerves are on edge. because i beleive he has something up his sleeve again to brainwash my kids being all nice and manipulating them into believing something.. which all i am doing is getting by thats all, and i pay for all my kids costs and what does he have to show for it NOTHING. which makes me so angry that this guy gets this chance and my kids go with him giving him that chance after all this it cuts me like a knife in the heart because i have always been there for my kids and sacraficed so much and there they go with their so called dady for a day with him on FATHERS DAY. i just dont get it. BRAINWASHING IS A TERRIBLE THING.