Münchausen by Proxy Syndrome 101

Posted on 27. May, 2010 by admin in Brainwashing, Exposing the methods

Munchausen by ProxyWhat is Münchausen by Proxy Syndrome?

Münchausen by Proxy (origin of this name) is a severe form of deliberate child abuse, usually by mothers (over 90% are women according to one study), whereby the mother deliberately attempts to get her own child sick via falsified physical, physiological, and/or mental symptoms. This is done through exaggeration of symptoms, actual inducement of symptoms, or an outright lie about symptoms.

Why mothers will do this:

  1. To gain attention of the doctors and nurses
  2. Attempt to bring the mother closer to the child’s father
  3. They are depressed and insecure
  4. Absentee mother or father in their own childhood
  5. Desire to control their child
  6. Show their indispensability to the child’s welfare
  7. Restore family cohesiveness
  8. Limit or prevent the child from being with the father through onerous doctor visits

Why it’s such such a deadly syndrome:

  1. 9% of the children die
  2. extremely difficult to diagnose
  3. mothers rarely will admit to it and attend psychotherapy
  4. the abusive parent often seems caring, and is often in the medical profession herself

Children with MBPS:

  1. lots of illnesses in a short period of time
  2. frequent visits to doctors, hospitals, and health clinics
  3. illnesses cease to exist when child is away from the mother
  4. child doesn’t respond to treatment
  5. often assists the mother with deceiving the doctors

Mothers with MBPS:

  1. Often have the same symptoms as their own child
  2. Were abused themselves as children
  3. Often a bad relationship with the father of the child
  4. Often don’t know how the illness occurred
  5. Excellent manipulators; convincing
  6. Are “helicopter moms;” very controlling
  7. Enjoy the attention they receive from caring for their “injured” child
  8. Often are in the medical field themselves
  9. Are attention seekers

Notes:

  1. common for child to exhibit genuine symptoms
  2. exaggeration of symptoms
  3. often mothers are in the health care field themselves
  4. mother has personality disorders in all cases
  5. mother lashes out at any questioning of her motives or actions
  6. mother is usually the custodial parent and has the time to inflict the harm to the child
  7. constant office or hospital visits
  8. most mothers know what they’re doing, and hide their acts aggressively
  9. mother often is not happy when good news appears
  10. rare
  11. one of the most severe forms of child abuse

Why it’s so hard to stop the harm to the child

  1. Difficult to diagnose or prove
  2. Takes many varied forms
  3. Courts and lawyers know little to nothing about the disorder
  4. Child Protective Services (CPS) knows little to nothing about the disorder

The most important task is to protect children immediately from mothers with Munchausen by Proxy Syndrome. And that has to take place through the courts or Child Protective Services (CPS). Unfortunately, their task is made difficult by the difficulty to prove it, and even if it seems provable with lots of evidence, getting judges and child advocates to understand it.

Sadly, in the meantime the child suffers, and often dies.

Bottom line: the child needs to be removed from the abuse, which means the child must be removed from the abuser– which in most cases is the mother.


[Final comment]

Difference between Munchausen and Munchausen by Proxy:

-Munchausen is faking your own illness
-Munchausen by Proxy is faking illness in your own children

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5 Responses to “Münchausen by Proxy Syndrome 101”

  1. tiffany

    10. Jul, 2010

    Where can you find a lawyer that can help the child get out of the situation?

  2. Anna

    03. Nov, 2010

    Is it not akin to being a Soceopath? There are lots of comparisons. We are in such a situation where the X daughter in law has all the symptoms of both conditions……..

  3. Ashley

    07. Nov, 2010

    My aunt has shown all the signs as well as my daughter she has had her for two years straight and had her in therapy as well as couseling the counseler has had a hard time diagnosing my daughter due to the fact that she doesnt talk mutch what she does say is short and breif and says i am the one that has done bad things to her however i know i didnt my aunt has to be the copriate but the counseler has taken my aunts side and is denying me the visits i patitioned for the courts wont even let me talk to my daughter what can i do with no access to her all i know is im inosent

  4. admin

    21. Dec, 2010

    Hello everyone, this is John, the owner of this blog.

    Thanks for sharing your heartfelt personal stories of lies and emotional abuse.

    Please visit the newly opened FORUMS here at BWC, it’s a much better way to discuss these issues. Here’s a direct link:

    http://www.brainwashingchildren.com/forums. See you over there!

  5. Jake

    10. Mar, 2011

    My ex is a textbook case, she abuses my son while gaining sympathy from family and friends. People like this are human waste.

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