[Consult with a family law attorney in your state; I am not a licensed attorney]
If you’re an airline pilot, don’t settle for a Standard Possession Order or another state-created template used to make the job of those in the family courts easier. With your schedule that changes month to month, it’s important for you and your attorney to demand an airline pilot possession order, an airline employee possession order, or variable possession order (its name depends on the state you’re in).
In the below video, I outline the basics. Consult a family law attorney in your state for details, but in general here is what an airline pilot possession order is: