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Narcissistic mother, narcissistic father – here are their traits
Posted on 23. Dec, 2011 by admin.
Narcissistic mothers and fathers have most of the following traits. How many apply to your situation? Narcissistic parents are self-absorbed, authoritarian, know-it-alls, negative, highly critical of others, yellers, secretive, possessively close to the child, cunning, manipulative, exploitive, stingy, pathological liars, envious and competitive, deaf to other’s opinions, bad listeners, braggers and exaggerators, ungrateful, boundary-less, inept [...]
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Abusive home = Unhappy home
Posted on 27. Sep, 2011 by admin.
If you dig down to the very core of why some parents and households are abusive towards children and others are not, look at how happy or unhappy they are. A happy parent is one who nurtures his or her children physically and emotionally. Happy people don’t molest, pass hurt feelings on to, deprive the [...]
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The 10 Commandments of Divorced Parenting
Posted on 06. Sep, 2011 by admin.
Don’t share any anger or grief with your child Never badmouth, demean, denigrate, or devalue your ex in front of your child. EVER. Communicate directly with your ex (your child is not a messenger!) Respect your ex’s visitation time (don’t bombard your child with calls, texts, etc.) Say positive [...]
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Destroying Dad’s Dignity
Posted on 23. Aug, 2011 by admin.
Thousands of fathers across America right now are viewed by their children in a disdainful, disrespecting way, brought about by badmouthing and brainwashing. Even a father who is in jail and has done horrible things does not deserve a verbal attack. Adults can comment all they want on him, but when it comes to the [...]
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Evidence from afar that your child is being brainwashed against you
Posted on 08. May, 2011 by admin.
When you’re the noncustodial parent, days and weeks go by without you being around your child or children. During this time the custodial parent– your ex– who’s hell-bent on sabotaging your relationship with your child has ample opportunity to do so. There are some strong signs that appear in most brainwashing households. You can’t be [...]
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Educational Child Abuse
Posted on 26. Apr, 2011 by admin.
Educational Child Abuse is the harm done to a child by a parent or caretaker who deliberately keeps the child out of school, taking them out repeatedly early, or otherwise preventing a healthy child from being in school consistently. Although this blog deals extensively with mental child abuse, I thought I’d expose a growing problem [...]
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The narcissistic parent
Posted on 28. Jan, 2011 by admin.
In my study of mental child abuse as well as my own observations regarding my ex, I’ve noticed how prevalent it is that the child abuser is highly narcissistic. What’s a narcissistic parent? It’s someone who is self-absorbed, authoritarian (watch out for their outbursts), negative, a know-it-all, highly critical of others, secretive, cunning, manipulative, exploitive, [...]
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Turning all phones off during the child’s birthdays, for Thanksgiving, Father’s Day, etc.
Posted on 21. Dec, 2010 by admin.
It’s been a rare holiday or birthday that I’ve been able to speak to my son. And never has my son initiated a call to me for these important dates– even Father’s Day. Of course we know that kids aren’t generally aware of these dates and to reach out to loved ones, which is why [...]
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Medical child abuse (Münchausen Syndrome by Proxy)
Posted on 21. Dec, 2010 by admin.
Most experts in child abuse aware that there’s three forms of abuse: Mental/emotional Physical Sexual However, what many aren’t aware of is one of the most DEADLY forms of child abuse: Medical child abuse. Its most common form, and only formally recognized form of medical abuse, is that of “Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy.” MSbP is a [...]
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Brainwashing and custodial parents
Posted on 10. Sep, 2010 by admin.
Who has more inroads to damage a child psychologically, the parent with whom a child spends 85% of the time, or the other parent (also known as “noncustodial” parent)? Clearly, the custodial parent has the most opportunity to brainwash, align, and otherwise create distortions in a child’s mind. And because women are overwhelmingly awarded custodianship [...]
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