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Comment on Dr. Phil’s show on Brainwashing of Children by Beverly Hollis

Beverly Hollis — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 12:33:15 +0000

Please my daughter is experiencing all of the above..He has cheated on her from day one (she has proof of this) and now that she has decided to divorce him, he is telling the children that she has been the one doing all this (which is far from the truth). He is the most controling person I have ever met in my 67 years, also liar, cheater, no morals, values; but he is brainwashing his 11, 9, and 6 year old telling them that my daughter and whole family are not worthy of them.

Comment on Brainwashing Tool #3: No pics of you anywhere by Beverly Hollis

Beverly Hollis — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 12:25:47 +0000

I am experiencing this with my grandchildren. His father is alienating his children from their mother. We have hundreds of witnesses of what a great mother she is but he has convinced the children she is nothing but a liar and isattempting to gain sole custody. He is the most evil person I have ever met. He is only attempting to destroy my daughter.

Comment on Brainwashing children: The four levels of abuse by lisa

lisa — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 14:45:03 +0000

It is so nice to learn that your not alone. I threw my ex out following years of cheating. I am now happily married and he has a new partner. Why cant we move on?
Our marriage didnt work however he seems to have such feelings of spite towards me that I dont understand. If he was cheating he clearly wasnt happy with me ? Why cause our child pain by being spiteful and manipulative?
I want us all to get on for her sake but I feel this will never happen.
I thought I was being soft by trying to ingore his actions and trying to rise above it , to others it appears you are being walked on, so your article has made me feel so much better!
Thank you !

Comment on Brainwashing Tool #7: Tell them what they’re missing at home by Carol

Carol — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:53:19 +0000

I am a mother, grandmother and great-grandmother- and I am so sick of the women I’ve seen manipulating their innoscent children in a divorce-custody battle. i have expereinced it with two of my sons divorces. The latter being the worse I’ve ever seen in my life. My son fought for custody for over 7 years and just now got his children fromt he mother. She pulled every rick in the book-mostly illegal- she didn’t care-whatever worked. She has damaged my grandchildren most likely for the rest of their lives. Now that he has custody she calls every day fromt he day he got them-several times daily and uses her brainwashing tactics still by phone. Everything mentioned on this site plus things that aren’t she has done and is doing. She’s admitted to drug use on the stand, admitted to mail tampering on the stand, taken federal funds from my son after the divorce for a year and a half- manipulated witnesses and chiildren to testify on her behalf and spy. She calls my sons home and makes violent threats to him if she can’t talk to them whenver and as many times as she wants daily so she can disrupt everyone else’s lives. She is destorying the children and has no reason to do the things she does except for her own anger and hatred. She had an affair during their marraige and bore another amans child during my son’s marraige. She is the bad parent- how does one help the children to overcome this sort of manipoulation from their mother??!!

Comment on Brainwashing children: The four levels of abuse by M

Thu, 21 Jan 2010 07:39:34 +0000

Thank you for this pots! It’s so sad and way to common! I’m happy to be able to share this info with my readers!

Comment on Other ways of describing the Brainwashing of Children by cindy crone

cindy crone — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 06:32:31 +0000

MY SON HAS BEEN ABUSED AND USED BY A WOMAN WHO HAS A SON, THAT THE PARENTS OF HERS HAVE KEPT THE MAN IN THE DARK FOR YEARS . THEN MY SON MARRIES HER, ANDLOVED HIM AS HIS OWN. FOR 4 YEARS. THEN HAD 2 CHILDREN WITH HER OF HIS OWN. WORKED HIS ASS OFF DROVE A CAR WITH NO HEAT, AND HER PARENTS WOULD NOT EVER LEAVE THEM ALONE SHE RAN TO THEM ALL THE TIME. I AM THE MOTHER OF MY SON. SHE WENT TO JAIL ON DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FOR 3 DAYS. HER MOTHER FOUGHT HIM SCRATCHED HIM WITH HIS DAUGHTER IN HIS ARMS. NOW SHE HAS TAKEN MY SON TO COURT 2 TIMES IN THE LAST YEAR. FOR MORE MONEY, AND NOW BACK TO COURT AGAIN ON A RESTRANING ORDER. WHY CAUSE HE CALLED AND ASKED HER TO PLEASE BRING CLOTHES THAT FIT THE KIDS. AND SHE FILED A DOMESTIC CHARGE THAT HE THREATENED HER. THOSE PARENTS OF HERS, ALSO TOOK MY GRANDCHILDREN AND HIDED THEM EVEN FROM THE LAW. FOR ALMOST 24 HOURS. UNTIL I SAID CALL THE FBI IN. THEN THE CHILDREN APPEARED. I HARDLY SEE MY BABIES. AND GUESS WHAT. I AM GOING TO FILE ALOT OF CHARGES. RIGHT BACK IN THEIR FACE. I MAY GO TO JAIL. BUT I BET I MAKE A SCENE IN THE COURT HOUSE ON JAN 26 2010 IN CANTON OHIO. MY SON LOVES HIS KIDS. AND ONE EXCELLENT FATHER. THAT THEY HAD THREATENED HIS LIFE. SHE GOES TO JAIL BUT MY SON PAYS THE PRICE. THIS IS NOT JUSTICE. SHE HAS ONE CHILD WITH NO FATHER. I GUESS SHE WANTS 2 MORE. HER MOM AND DAD BRAIN WASH THESE BABIES. AND I WILL TRY IN MY HEART SOUL AND LIFE. TO STOP IT. ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREATFUL. GOD BLESS THE LITTLE ANGELS THAT GOD GAVE US.

Comment on Other ways of describing the Brainwashing of Children by Jess

Jess — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 18:52:32 +0000

Their are also sick mothers, let me tell you it goes both ways.

My boyfriend’s ex doesn’t let him see the kids, or speak to them for that matter for weeks at a time. Unfortunately, they are not legally separated or divorced. My boyfriend doesn’t want to hurt the kids, so he refuses to stick up for his rights.

By the time we do get to spend time with his 2 children, they are so confused about things like their last name, to his son thinking he can be a girl. He is 3, and very vulnerable. How can you tell a child it is ok to be a girl.

It’s sad.

Comment on Brainwashing Tool #8: The telephone by Jess

Jess — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 18:39:58 +0000

My boyfriend’s ex doesn’t let him talk to the kids. She simply doesn’t answer the phone. And I disagree about the fact that children have a cell phone at age 4 and 5. His kids are almost 4 and one is 6, and neither of them have a cell phone.

He and his ex wife are not legally separated, nor are they divorced, and she pulls crap like that all the time. We agreed to pick up his kid’s Christmas day at 2. She did not answer texts, nor calls all day. We never saw them.

It is sad the kind of power that woman has, and they are definitely brainwashed over at their mother’s home. Pulling crap like, “you have a new last name.”

What is even more sad, is that this woman thinks she is hurting the dad. Well yeah, of course he’s upset. But did you stop to think about what this may be doing to your own kids?

Comment on Dr. Phil’s show on Brainwashing of Children by Joanne Kontic

Joanne Kontic — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 04:16:54 +0000

Hi Linda!
I know exactly how you feel… I feel I am in the same boat as you are. I live in Northern California and have been married to my husband for 13 yrs. I got two children ages 8 and 12 years old. I feel half of America deals with the same situation because of the economy. I have Lupus Sle for the past five yrs and my husband was in a big company layoff last yr after making a six figure salary we are now trying to save every penny just for rent and food. I am working part time one hour a day and my husband is jealous of me that I even have a job with my medical condition that I work for the past four yrs. Everything is in competition with him. Who is the better parent. I went to college and earned a certificate for child care while I was in the hospital too one yr to complete my schooling and I feel that in some way instead of support I feel there is jealousy because I am a fighter and want to get stronger because of my lupus and I am left alone in the end. we had a house and now we had to sell it last yr because of my husbands work and move closer to my moms house since I have my medical condition. My husband hates it where we live too. I have connections with ballroom dancing , church and the YMCA. I feel every time I try to make myself feel stronger and better I feel put down by everyone and get no support from the family. I need support with the lupus too. So I know how you feel all alone. And being blamed for everything. When you try your best.
Have a happy new year and try to make connections outside your home so you are not lonely. Friends also count. Even though you have problems at home and try to make it perfect.
Joanne Kontic

Comment on Other ways of describing the Brainwashing of Children by Chuck

Chuck — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 04:32:43 +0000

You know the saddest part about all of this…is that we site here blaming him or her or Daddy, or Mommy…lawyers make a good living off of the destruction of families. There are good people/parents and there are bad. But what makes the system operate the way it does is our corrupted legal system which knows that whether your’re male or female….there’s a good chance you’ll fight to see you kids. So what did lawyers/politicians create? They created a system which gives women unfail advantage in court over men. Why? Well I believe (and if you look how courts proceed it seems clear to me) that it’s set up this way to promote time in court which for an attorney/politician…that’s good money. It’s all a game that politicians, attorneys, judges have been playing with families for years and people just accept it now. Look at the system they created. First, lets agree that divorce is usually very difficult on the kids unless of course you need to remove the child from that environment. But in reality, the percentage of that are very low. Typically it’s the mother/father who need to work on things..but the kids end up suffering, and parents end up paying for it in legal fees but it’s never a satisfactory solution.

So what have they set up…well, we have:
No fault divorce: Now you don’t even need a reason to get a divorce…there’s easy money for some unethical attorney. Destroy a family that probably could have been saved and make good money doing it.

States get Federal money for every person who enteres the Single Custodial Parent role: Lots of people don’t know this…but it all makes sense. Get as many people into the divorce machine as you can and crank up those Single Custodial Parent” numbers so that the state gets more federal money. That’s a win/win situation for the state and attorneys. The state gets the federal money but you as a father for instance don’t see that federal money….no no…you have to pay child support. So you are paying for your kids even thuogh you only see them a fraction of the time, while the state collects a check from uncle sam. Of course attorneys make out because they represent the fool who thinks he/she will get any justice in this legal system run by self serving politicians, lawyers, judges.

Women put at an unfair advantage over men: This just sets men up so that if they want any justice..they’re going to have to pay $10,000 plus for it! Again, nice job if you’re an attorney.

So how can it be fixed quickly? FIrst, divorce should never be promoted when young kids are involved. The court should do whatever it can to do what’s right for the kids. So first, judges need to start asking question when the papers are filed for divorce. If the couple has no children…easier case. If they have children…get to the root of the problem in the marriage. Who filed and why?

Pass laws that put the parents on equal terms. When it comes to custody…it should be 50/50 by default and the parties can change that if they agree to.

Get rid of alimony…this should have gone above…if a person files for divorce…they should have NO RIGHT to file for alimony unless there is a good reason. Instead, alimony is always there so again, you give someone a gun (out legal system), you give them a bullet (alimoney), and attornyes hope that with that power, someone will go after alimony or pull that trigger…why? Because they can.

Oh lets not forget restraining orders. It’s way to easy to get a restraining order. Talk about Parental alienation. Again there is only ONE reason why you pass, or set up laws like this, to increase court time and money made in court.

Some laws like the 50/50 custody could be easily put in place but by doing that…people won’t have anything to go to court to fight over and pay attorneys fees.

You get what you subsidize….if you want people to go to court, then you simply give unfair advantage to a different group. You “subsidize” them so that in order to fight them in court, you have to pay. They do too…but the point is, they have an unfair advantage and were given things that they should not have been given without some level of investigation….and again, there is no investigation unless you go to trial….which again, costs thousands. It’s quite I nice little system they’ve created. Totally unfair and people have come to accept it….that is, unless they get sucked into it themselves.