Tag Archives: Brainwashing

Quote of the Week

Posted on 16. Apr, 2010 by admin.

0

Tragically, an ex consumed by revenge will gladly sabotage their child’s loving feelings with the inducement of false hatred.” – www.brainwashingchildren.com

Continue Reading

Brainwashing grandmothers

Posted on 16. Apr, 2010 by admin.

1

A parent bent on destroying their own child’s relationship with the ex often have a family member quite willing to take part in the brainwashing… The grandmother. Over the years I’ve heard my son’s grandmother enough times to see first-hand how she’s hurting my son’s relationship with me. And I realize that what I’m hearing [...]

Continue Reading

Parental Alienation Syndrome to be highlighted on ABC’s 20/20

Posted on 14. Dec, 2009 by admin.

5

ABC News’ show 20/20 will be featuring a segment this Friday, with a brief appearance by Dr. Richard Warshak, the foremost author and psychologist on parental alienation syndrome, aka “children brainwashed to hate a parent.” From Dr. Warshak‘s site, I expect this show to have a major impact in educating the public about the suffering [...]

Continue Reading

Brainwashing children: The four levels of abuse

Posted on 08. Nov, 2009 by admin.

4

Brainwashing children to despise a parent falls into one of four categories of severity: Glancing insult Direct attack Relationship assault Relationship-ending coaching Glancing insult The glancing insult, also called a “drive-by put down,” is a derogatory remark said to the child about a parent. These are off-the-cuff remarks whose purpose is to instill doubt and [...]

Continue Reading

Other ways of describing the Brainwashing of Children

Posted on 26. Jun, 2009 by admin.

14

Teaching hate Attack on the child’s soul Parental alienation Sabotaging the parent-child bond Aligning the child against the parent Poisoning the child’s mind Inducing false hatred Stealing the child’s soul Crushing/killing the child’s spirit Relationship is under attack Erasing or rewriting the child’s good memories Bashing the parent Denying a loving relationship Programming Squashing the [...]

Continue Reading

Dr. Phil’s show on Brainwashing of Children

Posted on 10. Jun, 2009 by admin.

13

A few months ago I watched with interest an episode of Dr. Phil that dealt with the topic of brainwashing of children by a parent. Dr. Phil summarized the bad parental behavior that hurts children, and I jotted down the main points he made. Here they are: Using child as pawn Talking bad about the other [...]

Continue Reading

The Post-Visitation “Shakedown”

Posted on 03. May, 2009 by admin.

2

When your child is dropped off with your ex following your weekend or other multi-day visitation, a brainwashing parent will usually give your kid(s) a post-visitation “shakedown”. The goal of the parent doing this is to extract all the details, looking for those that put the other parent in bad light. The poor child knows [...]

Continue Reading

Brainwashing Tool #2: Using the child as a spy

Posted on 31. Mar, 2009 by admin.

0

Parents who are indoctrinating their children to spite the ex will also enlist the child to become a surrogate spy. This can range from simple information about the ex’s new girlfriend, all the details of every breakfast and dinner (“what did you eat? What restaurant did he take you to?”) to doing complete hard drive [...]

Continue Reading

When your ex places your child into counseling after every visit

Posted on 01. Mar, 2009 by admin.

0

I’m experiencing in my case severe programming in a desperate attempt to sever my son’s relationship with me. One of the things my son’s mother does is place him into counseling after every father-son time we have. That’s right, usually the very next Monday or Tuesday after the Sunday evening exchange he is placed into [...]

Continue Reading

Brainwashing technique #4: Transferring hurt feelings and frustrations onto a child

Posted on 07. Jan, 2009 by admin.

1

Brainwashing a child usually begins as frustrations, hurt, and contempt towards you by your ex. He or she feels betrayed, wronged, is quite bitter about the separation or divorce, and believes the child needs to know about these strong feelings. Here, emotion trumps logic and good parenting. A parent makes a decision to bring the [...]

Continue Reading